Hot Tea

People always try to fill your cup with hot tea at asian restaurants when they see that it is partially empty. Not everyone likes this!!!! They kept trying to fill my cup. The first guy, motioned for me to bring the cup closer to him (I was hugging it away from him) but  I told him "no ty". The second lady said " 'xcuse me, may I fill your cup?" i said " no thankyou!" The third lady said nothing. She just reached over my head and sloshed some hot hot tea into my cup..... and then I quickly went " Oh, its good . I don't need any more thanks!" and yeah.. i couldnt drink it for like the longest time. Sigh..... I can't drink hot stuff!@!@! raaah dah i am a fail asian.  I have to wait until its like at least a bit cooler etc. blah blah bllah its like the older version of the three little pigs lol. "the first little lady (guy) used gestures." " the second little lady used speech." " the third little lady just did." T_T